"Tere jaane ka asar kuch aisa huya mujh par,
tujhe dhundte-dhundte maine khud ko paa liya..."
Lines made famous by the bestselling novel "I too had a love story" by Ravinder Singh.
Often we get so immersed in a relationship and so obsessed with a person we tend to forget our individuality. Eventually, expectations from the person and the relationship increase and we get hurt when we do not get what we expected. We just do not get hurt, we feel used, we feel taken-for-granted and then the relationship suffers and ultimately dies.
What is necessary is to maintain our own individuality which obviously does not mean to protect the ego. This ego would also poison your relationship and more importantly YOU. Maintain your individuality, make efforts for your own happiness, concentrate on your spiritual self and see the magic in your relationships.
Whensoever you want to see a change in any person or a relationship start bringing changes in you and your approach.
"You cannot change anything in this world, but YOU."
:)
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